Every relationship has its high and low moments. Even at times, not foreseen, things could suddenly change to a point of disbelief. Ugly surprises do occur in relationships but the fact remains that they do give us warning signs. Nobody wants a split in their relationship, hence, we ignore these signs especially when we either feel safe in it or we don’t want to let go. The important side to this is that, making a relationship work isn't a lone decision. It takes you-two to get at it – making efforts and showing commitment. No matter how unexpected a break-up seem to have happened, it always come along with alerts – various warning signs, and they could be silent or just too obvious even when you ignore them.
I understood that every stage of a relationship comes with uncertainties and the possibility of surviving at such moments would depend on the strength of the both parties. It would be a matter of concern if you or your partner chooses to deal with it alone. Break-up do happen, even to promising relationships, it’s mostly prompted by contrary influence, incompatibility or inability to compromise some standards. Whichever way it comes, there are signs foretelling the possibility of a split in your relationship and from my experience I've gathered 25 signs for both genders that should get your attention.
1.When their excuse is always the same or contradictory.
2.When they stop doing what they did to get and win you.
3.When you’re often compared to their ex.
4.When he loves his privacy.
5.When she starts keeping sensitive secrets.
6.When she makes important decisions without your consent.
7.When she gets mad at minor issues, and especially starts nagging.
8.When you’re alone and nothing seems missing – You ran a whole day without his thought going through your mind?
9.When he introduces you as his friend and not his girl/woman/fiancée (as the case may be).
10.When they no longer cares about important matters that concerns you.
11.When they always find a fault about you to defend/justify their action(s).
12.When they take their friends as more priority than you.
13.When he replaces regular calling with text messages.
14.When she’s not always happy around you.
15.When it’s only sex that keeps your relationship alive.
16.When he gives you no attention because of his friends or job.
17.When they’re not in any way jealous about your friends of opposite sex or concerned about the calls you receive – This isn't insecurity, it only shows they’re keenly interested in you and the fact that they can’t afford to lose you.
18.When he no longer seek your opinion or careless about them.
19.When she communicates less with you but complains more.
20.When they hide their phones from you.
21.When she’s being controlled by her mother.
22.When he doubts every excuse/reason you give.
23.When she settles for you alone and avoids your family/friends.
24.No discussion about the future or they plan their future without you in the picture.
25.When she ask for a break regularly.
26.When both of you finds it difficult to make collective decision(s) or remain on the same page on important matters.
27.When there is nothing to propel you into mutual conversations with them.
When they become ungrateful for the good deeds and favours you did to/for them.
These warning signs are for our caution. If you don’t give them good attention, it could result in a sudden break-up of your relationship. If you ever experience any of these disturbing signs, have a good discussion with your partner and try never to ignore it. In a relationship, you’re truly happy when your partner is happy. A one-sided affair will always find its way to hit the rock. The good side to this is that these signs can be swiftly identified; it’s either what he/she stops doing or what he/she starts doing. Whichever way, don’t let the negative signs be, don’t manage any, don’t prevent or ignore, cure them! Heal your relationship of little faults because it could form a breaking point for more trouble.
God Bless You.
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